Today, eight services are being held in remembrance of Derrick Bird's victims.
Despite the horrific rampage that Bird took on the 2nd June, people are not taking the obvious option to demonise him. Instead people are expressing shock that a seemingly normal man could choose these actions as an outlet. A former work colleague, Les Taylor, said to the Guardian; "He was such a nice lad – I can't believe what he did". The compassion of those involved was also shown in the 13 candles lit, despite Bird murdering 12.
Police have revealed that Bird had been self harming for a prolonged period before the 2nd June; it is expected to have been a number of years. He was physically self harming through cutting.
Police have been investigating the relevance of self harm in the case. They have been in contact with Steve Lax of Self Injury Support, who stated, "Self harm is a real indicator of possible suicidal intent. We have to have proper analysis to see if there were missed opportunities and in what ways in which Mr Bird might have been helped."
Lax indicates that this situation could have seen a very different end should Bird have received the right support. However, the problem is that people are not always aware of the help that is available, or recognise the need for help.
At Step Up! International, one of the services offered by Jennifer Mcleod is support for parents, offering practical ways of dealing with potential and actual self harm, as well as managing dynamics in a family setting.
For full details of what is offered by Step Up! International visit the contact page for information on how to get in touch.
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