I talked to one of my prospective clients today. They said that they didn’t have a self harm problem at the moment, but ‘we do have a lot of eating problems here!’ what’s your perception of self harm?

 

 

 

What do you think drives people to self harm?

 

 

TOP TIP: How to help people to untangle their mixed up feelings: - Restate their problem as a question like this: ‘So the Question seems to be: How do you express that you are feeling unloved at home without self harming?’

 

 

A parent being forced to do parenting programmes doesn’t necessarily work! If the parent is not willing to embrace the learning on the programmes, just like any other course, they are wasting their time. The emphasis for me is to work with the parent in respect of the ROOT CAUSE of their challenges. Inadequate or inappropriate parenting is simply a SYMPTOM of what is going on at the root cause or root level.

 

 

As I am making my sales calls for the past couple of days, it appears that the rise in self harm in young people is increasing to the extent where staff are both overwhelmed and baffled at the same time, as to what would lead them to self harm in the way that they do.

 

 

The strongest among the weak is the one who doesn't forget his weaknesses.  - Danish Proverb

 

 

 

Oh Lord, Bless our YOUNG PEOPLE  from us ‘adults’ who can’t do, won’t do, should do, shouldn’t do, refuse to do, that which we expect and tell our young people to do!, BUT wish we (adults) could do!

Oh and yeah, help us adults to develop the COURAGE to do that which we expect our young to do.

 

 

Often adults talk about young people not taking responsibility for their actions. Often adults haven’t shown young people HOW to take responsibility! That is, adults haven’t lead the way or been a good role model for young people to learn how to take responsibility. Adults? = parents, teachers, society as a whole

 

 

Facebook teams up with Samaritans to prevent suicide www.stepup-international.co.uk/news/

 

 

All successful people men and women are big dreamers. They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they work every day toward their distant vision, that goal or purpose.  Brian Tracy

 

 

3 Strikes and You’re Out! www.stepup-international.co.uk

 

 

Question: If you were to do just one thing that, if you did it consistently it would make a difference in your business or your life, what would that one thing be?

 

 

Facebook and Samaritans join forces to help people who might be feeling suicidal to offer them other possibilities

 

 

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is 

our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most...We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

It's not just in some of us; it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people 

permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.  - Marianne Williamson, American author and lecturer

 

 

To celebrate 100 Years of International Women's Day, vote for the most 'Divine Woman' in the UK www.stepup-international.co.uk

 

 

Happy Happy International Women’s Day to all women across the world

 

 

I have updated my website. Take a look www.borntowin-book.com

 

 

Comparison website states that New European Court ruling on insurance is effectively a gender tax on women. Read more here  http://bit.ly/hIrfEB

 

 

“After all is said and done, a lot more will have been said than done” ~ J

 

 

I am only one, but still I am one.  I cannot do everything, But still I can do something; And because I cannot do everything
I will not refuse to do the something that I can do. ~ Edward Everett Hale